If there are family problems with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, of course, there will be families with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law. But this kind of in-laws is hard to come by. Many daughters-in-law hold on to each other, not asking for mercy on the same mother and daughter, but asking for respect for each other. Because of work, a netizen knew a healthy mother-in-law at 85 years old. Because she was afraid of putting her daughter-in-law on the side, she insisted that she didn't live in the same house as her son, which made him unable to help but praise the existence of a good family!
Don't use old age as a reason, and do not add pressure to your daughter-in-lawThe husband of this mother-in-law died three years ago, and she lived alone as aged 85. But with a healthy body, she has taken good care of all aspects of life. She can cook by herself and knows how to use a smart phone. She usually takes metros or buses. Even though he said that, the original PO couldn't help but wonder why the mother-in-law didn't consider living with her daughter-in-law, and everyone could take care of each other and there were people to accompany her in the meantime.
I didn't expect that my mother-in-law would answer, "No! I didn't live with them before, so don't use old age as an excuse now , ask to live with your son and daughter-in-law, what should I do if I give my daughter-in-law pressure? If I separate this, I will be more free and will not cause misunderstandings due to friction in life. "
I clearly think of my mother-in-law who comes from my mother-in-law, and I want to inherit the habits, and this mother-in-law continued to explain why she was She had this idea, it turned out that she also met a good mother-in-law who loved her very much. When she was young, her mother-in-law loved her very much. No matter before and after marriage or after having children, her mother-in-law loved her very much. At that time, she thought that she would inherit such good habits in the future. Why should she be a difficult daughter-in-law? She is also someone else's daughter!
Some young men and women think of it, but she doesn't have any special requirements. She thinks that as long as the child is safe and healthy, the original post said with a deep heart that "there are not many good people now, and it is even more difficult for a mother-in-law to have an empathetic mother-in-law to do it."
After reading it, many netizens were very I hope there is such an open-minded mother-in-law at home. "How many mother-in-laws can do this kind of thinking", "I hope there are more good mother-in-laws", "It's just that women are difficult for women, and they are more free to separate", "Because I have a young and open heart, it's hard to wonder that at this age, I can still be clear-headed and healthy and happy."
The good mother-in-law really exists, not a fairy tale!
Perhaps the story of the bad mother-in-law is easily passed down thousands of miles, which makes many people mistakenly believe that good mother-in-law only appears in fairy tales. Not only the above examples, but many netizens also share the good mother-in-law they also met in the post, "My mother-in-law is also very good to me. Every time I go back to my mother-in-law, it is like going back to my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law cooks and eats me and washes dishes, but most of them It was my father-in-law who went to the bathroom and helped us take children, "Maybe it was because I had no mother since childhood. My mother-in-law really treated me as a daughter, and I sincerely thanked me," "Before marriage, I lived with my husband and mother-in-law for 4 years, and my husband's family was good to me, so I decided to get married. After marriage, my husband's family was only better. If I really married a good husband's family, nothing was wrong." In fact, it is not just the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As long as people have empathy and know double respect, any relationship can make people feel comfortable.
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