A 60-year-old man eats cashews and healthy meals like crazy and "asks for sex three times a week" in an effort to have a baby. His 42-year-old wife is about to collapse.

In modern society, it is common to marry later and have children later. Many people do not get married until they are over 40 years old. However, pregnancy and childbirth are undoubtedly a big challenge. A Japanese woman in her 40s married her 18-year-old husband. Faced with a serious gap in whether to have children, she revealed the subtle reality and psychological entanglements in mature marriages.

Forza Style reported that Dao Molinai (pseudonym) is an office worker. She met her current husband at a social gathering at the age of 41 and got married after dating for one year. Moline's husband has been enjoying the single life, but he is also looking for young wives to get married.

There is an age gap between Moline and her husband. Her husband, who was 59 at the time, has already entered his 60s, but he is very healthy and has been working hard to maintain a young body. He eats almost no carbohydrates, saying that fructose will make the body rust, and he only eats a little fruit. Desserts are not touched at all. He believes that as long as the blood vessels and blood are kept healthy, one can stay young.

A husband who pursues health will take the initiative to cook. It's just that the healthy meal was too light, which made Molinae a little dissatisfied for a while, complaining that the dishes he cooked were really bland and he rarely fried anything. Jasmine originally loved eating heavy food, but later she learned to balance it, her blood pressure dropped, and she lost 4 kilograms in weight.

The sixty-year-old husband maintains strong energy and strives to "create a human being."

The husband has reached the age of a grandfather, but it seems that having children has always been on his dream list, and he is also very active in "creating human beings." He pays great attention to the ingredients and eating methods that improve blood flow, but does not take aphrodisiac supplements. He believes that it should start with the "hard body" itself. He doesn't go to the gym, but he exercises at home every day and runs twice a week. His physical strength may be better than that of young people.

My husband always adds ground cashews to the smoothie he drinks in the morning. He says it is rich in zinc, which is good for energy and can also prevent the smell of old people. In addition, he also researches many antioxidant ingredients and incorporates them into meals every day.

This physical strength has become a pressure on Moline. She bluntly said that she no longer needs those erotic scenes. When she reaches middle age, she just wants the two of them to live peacefully together. She can't bear to be called up for sex in the middle of the night. Moreover, Moline didn't want a child at all, and she didn't think she could get pregnant. If unfortunately she got pregnant, parenting would really be impossible.

But my husband became more and more active, changing from "I'll give birth as soon as I get pregnant" to "Don't give up too early, let's give it a try." Moline lamented that her husband, who was over 60 years old, still took the initiative three times a week, which put her under great pressure. Although she admired his amazing physical strength, she did not want to have a baby at all. She also felt that it would be pitiful to reject him, but she was even more afraid of being pestered by him until she became pregnant.

In addition, the husband’s parents are over 80 years old and have no other grandchildren. In addition, their son has married a young wife, which makes them look forward to having grandchildren, which is also a major source of pressure.

Moline sighed: "In his eyes, I may still be young, but I am 42 years old. It is not easy to get pregnant in theory. Before marriage, I said that I might not be able to get pregnant, and I didn't particularly want to have a child. He seemed to accept it at the time, but now he has changed." She felt that it was necessary to have a good talk with her husband.

Difficulties in middle-aged marriage: More observation and communication are needed before marriage

Modern people have a tendency to marry later. In recent years, socializing activities and services for mature people over 40 years old have also been very prosperous. Japanese crisis management consultant Toshiki Hiratsuka pointed out that the combination of marriage in mature years is very diverse, including first marriage, remarriage, whether there are children or parents living together, etc. Due to the large differences in values ​​and living habits, friction is prone to occur after marriage. It is recommended to extend the trial marriage period before registration to reduce risks.

Even if there is a consensus before marriage, you may still change your mind after marriage. Especially for family planning, only through full communication and consensus can we truly maintain a stable and happy marriage.